Rewrite Your Story with Courage: Lessons from Cheryne Blom on Self-Discovery and Purpose

In a world where outward success can mask inner misalignment, Cheryne Blom’s story is a powerful reminder that courage, self-awareness, and authenticity are the foundations of meaningful growth.

On What I Wish I Knew at 30, Fran Harper sits down with Cheryne Blom, master coach and author, to explore how personal awakening, intentional choices, and values-based leadership can redefine both life and career. Her journey offers deep insights for professionals, leaders, and high achievers seeking purpose-driven leadership and holistic wellbeing.

A Decade of Awakening

Reflecting on her 30s, Cheryne describes a decade marked by both emotional breakdowns and profound breakthroughs. While she appeared successful on the outside, internally she felt disconnected from her true self. This period became a powerful awakening, highlighting the importance of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and living with intention. Her experience speaks directly to leaders who find themselves questioning success that looks good on paper but feels unfulfilling in reality.

The Courage to Choose Yourself

A defining turning point came when Cheryne gained financial independence, giving her the freedom to leave a controlling relationship. Although the decision was filled with fear and uncertainty, it became the catalyst for lasting transformation. By choosing herself, embracing vulnerability, and stepping fully into her calling as a coach, Cheryne began aligning her life with her values. This moment reflects a core principle of executive coaching for leaders: real growth begins when courage meets clarity.

Lessons in Self-Trust and Authentic Leadership

Through her journey, Cheryne learned that leadership starts from within. Trusting her inner voice, honoring her uniqueness, and taking bold, intentional steps allowed her to rebuild her life with purpose. These lessons mirror the foundations of mindset coaching and conscious leadership, where confidence, self-awareness, and authenticity shape sustainable success.

Key Takeaways

💡 Trust Yourself

Cheryne reminds us that inner guidance is one of the most powerful leadership tools we have. Learning to listen and act on it builds confidence and strengthens a high-performance mindset.

💡 Embrace Your Uniqueness

Rather than conforming, Cheryne encourages professionals to honor what makes them different. Self-awareness and leadership are deeply connected to authenticity.

💡 Take Bold, Intentional Steps

Growth often requires discomfort. By stepping outside your comfort zone, you open the door to personal development, purpose-driven leadership, and meaningful change.

The Bigger Picture

Cheryne Blom’s journey is a testament to the power of courage, self-awareness, and values-based decision making. Her story invites leaders and professionals to reflect on where they may be settling for safety over alignment. As Fran Harper so beautifully concludes, the best chapters are still ahead, and it is never too late to rewrite your story.

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💡 This week, reflect on one area of your life where courage is being asked of you. Whether it’s trusting yourself, setting a boundary, or taking a bold step forward, choose one action that brings you closer to alignment and purpose.

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